Choose "your" interpretation of the facts very carefully. The way you interpret information and conversation will ultimately say something about your own character as you attempt to relay, or possibly dramatize the information.
I recently heard local news report that a man that had a sighting of a "Bigfoot". And before the actual interview with the man the news reporting headline said; "A man had a sighting of Bigfoot and said it looked like Farrah Fawcett".
When they actually interviewed him, he said nothing of the sort. He simply described the beast as having "light colored blondish hair".
When people choose to add or subtract information it skews the original information. It contorts it. It leads the perception of the information down a different path. It is also considered deceitful or manipulative. It makes people believe something other than what was said.
When a person practices this informational contortion, then they leave others with no choice but treat those individuals character and information as questionable.
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
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in todays world it is evan easier to missinterpret the meaning behind peoples statements, questions amd answers. Text messaging and e mails are often missinterpreted by the perception of the person reading it. tone and inflexion and the lack of visual input can turn a well meaning phrase into a hurtful experience for the reader. Letter writting was/is, a more intimate and careful phrasing, I wonder why? as they are all words spoken at a distance. Could it be the perminance of the written word that compels us to think with more care about the reader and perhaps other readers for whom the original was not intended? I wonder how many times ill feelings have arrisen since progress pushed us into the e mail and texting world?
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